lee
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Post by lee on Aug 5, 2023 17:46:02 GMT
I have been pondering a lot lately as most people who seek a good woman wil do. As a young man I am seeing books and blogs now, on how to be a real man. I never thought growing up there would be books instructing boys and men hwo to be "Real Men." We have reached a time in this world where the Media and Liberals are attempting to change the identity of our own gender. I am a Man and like being a man, but ouside of all of this I contemplate on how to date women now. Women are changing and some are appearing and attempting to become more masculine as they can be. I desire a woman for her femine ways and the way God intended it.
Where do men seek good women now? They are out there, so where do we look? I have never been the bar and club type but have even thought upon this.
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Post by noclevername on Aug 6, 2023 17:55:01 GMT
I have been pondering a lot lately as most people who seek a good woman wil do. As a young man I am seeing books and blogs now, on how to be a real man. I never thought growing up there would be books instructing boys and men hwo to be "Real Men." We have reached a time in this world where the Media and Liberals are attempting to change the identity of our own gender. I am a Man and like being a man, but ouside of all of this I contemplate on how to date women now. Women are changing and some are appearing and attempting to become more masculine as they can be. I desire a woman for her femine ways and the way God intended it. Where do men seek good women now? They are out there, so where do we look? I have never been the bar and club type but have even thought upon this. If you are looking for a bar buddy maybe the night club scene is a possibility. Things changed after the pandemic and for those of us not looking since then it would be hard to say what the right place is. The online sites like match.com can leave you disappointed not to mention destroy your privacy. Lots of ladies go to craft shows and flea markets. If you sold stuff and were there you would meet a few. That does not guarantee that you would find what you are looking for. If you just want any girl that might be the routes you take. |
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Post by The Resister on Aug 6, 2023 22:57:12 GMT
We've discussed this in e mails, but I want to repeat some things and present it a different way.
To begin with I agree with noclevername. You will find a bar buddy in a bar, but not a good woman per se. Do you drink now? If so, maybe you're looking more for validation rather than a serious inquiry into the right answer. If not the last person you want for a girlfriend is a lush. A lush is an alcoholic. Some are great to look at, but can be high maintenance.
A lot of people are on dating sites. They are hit and miss. It's the Internet and everybody lies. Remember that. To repeat what I told you before:
My suggestion is that you multitask. You want companionship and you want to meet people of like mind. Isn't why that you're working on the podcast idea? Finding your target group involves marketing. Marketing involves polling. So, the first thing you do is to formulate a marketing poll. You are looking for people whose age and views are close to your own. You also find others whose views line up with yours that you can work with, but your main objective is to find those you would be spending a lot of time with in activist type work.
You have your written poll and some sheets to record the information on. All you need now is a decent set of clothes and a place that attracts the people you want to meet. As you poll people, you will meet potential friends. AND you are going to meet some ladies whose views line up with your own. Anywhere the public congregates is a potential polling location - any street, mall, or public venue works. It should be close to where you live and shop. Obviously you didn't think much of the idea at the time, but if you go out blindly looking for the woman of your dreams without a plan, you will fail. If you go out looking it is unlikely to happen. And, there is a reason.
EVERYBODY lies. EVERYBODY. The girls you meet on the Internet don't want you to know that they are a drug addict, broke / bankrupt, have been married multiple times, sent guys to jail on trumped up "domestic violence" charges, had an abortion, have been in an inter-racial - non-Christian relationship and have a child that will NEVER be like you. They won't tell you that their child, the cat, or their momma will ALWAYS take precedence over your relationship. They wouldn't want you to know you are number three, four, or five in the order of importance in their life. They tell you that after they have you hooked. But, people are more likely to be truthful with a pollster. Since you would be polling people about what they really think and not telling you their names right off, they aren't motivated to lie to you.
I wish I'd thought of the strategy myself when I was young. It wasn't until recent years that I even thought about it.
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Post by lee on May 5, 2024 16:07:43 GMT
I have been honestly talking to girls online and there are some that seem to be serious and ask right questions. I am talking to one now that I believe is okay and plan to take out next weekend. I always want to meet someone in a public place for my safety and hers. One girl I spoke with asked how my credit was, how much I made and told me she wasn't a Gold Digger. Maybe not but these are not questions she would ask if she wasn't. When you date someone these questions she asked would have been brought up at some point. Her interest was more focused financially. I honestly have been very careful with women since I have got older and wiser in how they can be. I just want someone who is a Christian, I can relate too and trust, have children and live a simple life. So many women do not want these things but say they do. I believe men feel this frustration and women feel this frustration in men. The problem with relationships is simple, most do have God in their lives. So many people leave God out of their lives and do not follow the bible yet wonder why everything is so screwed up.
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Post by professorx on May 8, 2024 2:33:44 GMT
I do not know about the times but would be cautious about anyone wanting to know how good my credit is prior to a date. Expect that kind of person to investigate you and see if you are married, own a home, have assets, or maybe a criminal record. All of that is available for a low cost fee. There is no need to have an interview with someone. When you go out you can start with questions about that person and their family life, hopes, dreams, values, and what is important to them. A lot of women probably want to know if you can afford them. You might inquire about what kind of job they have and if they like it. Do you want someone that is independent or someone that wants to stay and home while you provide?
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